Hi Diana,
Thanks for the great question. From what you have described, it certainly sounds like your son is drying out his hair. I am not sure how often he washes it, but I would recommend a stronger conditioner at this time of the year. If he is looking for a "manly" brand, L'Oreal has a line for men that is a good price http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=... If he already uses conditioner and it is still dry, I would get a stronger one, this is a good one available everywhere http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=... I wouldn't worry about his hair being permanently damaged as he gets it cut often. But it definitely should be healthier.
You are correct, most gels do contain alcohol especially lines like Dippity Do. You may want suggest he try a pomade or putty, they offer the same control as gel, but it is a softer feel and sometimes add a nice shine. It may take him some time to get used to it, but he won't have to worry about poking his classmates eyes out. An example of a pomade is here: http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=... you can find them in any drugstore.
Please keep me posted! Anyone else have any recommendations for Diana?

